You will be glad to know that I am not a person that sets a number of limits on the person who I am looking for. Just read some of the personals or on the online dating services on how gay men describe that they don't want anyone over 40, or no femmes please! They are waiting for their knight in shining armor and I bet those that take that approach are still single!

     This is who I am looking for: A nice gay man who is also looking for a lifelong partner to share exciting experiences with. You are honest and believes in karma, what comes around goes around. You need to be honest with yourself as well as stable. Let me describe stable so there is no misunderstanding. I don't care what type of job you have or what you do as a profession or your financial status or your age, just that you are independent.

     I don't stereotype please don't stereotype me! Many gay men have a certain type they prefer to date and many men as you may know don't have a boyfriend for this reason or another. Yes, I have preferred types like all gay men do but I am expanding my horizons and I am asking you to do the same. After awhile, the physical part of a man eventually wears off no matter how good looking they are. As the old saying goes, (with a gorgeous model on a picture), "No matter how good he looks now, someone or somebody out there is tired of putting up with his bullshit." For me, it is the head and the heart. Are you trustworthy? Will you be with me through thick and thin, vice versa? Are you a giving person and have a kind heart? That's it, no big restrictions like many gay men put on other gay men. Lastly, I am HIV negative and if you are HIV positive, you are still definitely a candidate!